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Why Some People Keep Secrets: Dismissive Avoidant Attachment and the Origins of Infidelity
Betrayal Trauma Recovery, Relationship Healing Duane Osterlind 5/18/26 Betrayal Trauma Recovery, Relationship Healing Duane Osterlind 5/18/26

Why Some People Keep Secrets: Dismissive Avoidant Attachment and the Origins of Infidelity

You replay the dinners and the vacations and wonder how he could sit there. Dr. Stan Tatkin on the attachment pattern underneath secret keeping — and why repair has to go deeper than a promise to be honest.

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