It's Not Just Cheating: What Intimate Partner Betrayal Actually Does to a Person

We call it cheating. Andrea Rogers calls it what it actually is: somebody threw a grenade into her life and blew it up — and she's still standing. In this conversation, she names the invisible symptoms most people never see, why grief brings casseroles but betrayal brings silence, and the hardest truth the person who caused the harm has to hold: you are the weapon. There is hope here. It's hard work — but we can heal.